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climbing = dating? 19-Oct-2008 At 10:05:07 PM stonetroll

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Hi noclimberboys .... I hope my advice and constructive criticism will be taken with the kind sincerity to which I intend it. Just reading your post I see communication issues as the root of the dilemma. By saying this queastion isn't realy climbing related but asking a queastion that is climbing related, there's been sent a mixed message. Then by asking why is it that boys (plural) think they're on a date but then ask how do you get this hypothetical boy (singular) to understand you're not intrested, then what are we talking about ? Is it one guy, guys in general or every climb boy you've ever met. I do get your point and I see them as valid queastions. But I feel you may be the type of gentle soul who finds it difficult setting bounderys in human dynamics. I think setting bounderys in relationships can be healthy and by providing clear communication (through your every day ineraction) I'd think the people around will understand you better. Welcome to the great sport of climbing. Stick with it and I'm sure you'll find inspiration for the soul heart and mind.