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Climbing trip used as a date - thoughts? 27-May-2007 At 12:21:16 AM kerroxapithecus

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No way bud. You're going to have to do something now that you've been given mountains of ideas. Ok maybe you should suggest a quick date (I don't mean a quickie of course) but something where you don't have to go out into the wilderness and be stuck with each other. There's no escape route when you're half way up the route or if you're out in no man's land. What if you're on your trip and you start to hate each other? That would be funny! A climbing trip is actually a mega date isn't it. What about a day trip?
I think to ask him out you have to do your research first. No 1 is to assess the likelihood that he'll say yes. Step 1. Find out if he's available. If he's not it's not the end of the world. More research needed ie. how unavailable? Happily married with children...unlikely. Step 2. Flirt to gauge response. Step 3. Suggest outing.
Try this method someone told me about. In your mind tune in to him and ask him to meet you in a serene place. Come face to face with him. Surround yourself with white light and ask that this meeting be for the highest good for all concerned. Ask him your question and await response.
If he indicates he'd like to do a quilting workshop with you...great you'll be a match made in heaven!
Take care PK.
K